Understand

on July 30th, 2013 by - Comments Off on Understand

Little can be done for prepares children to as devastating news for them such as the breaking of a few parents. The same separation or divorce are unexpected developments for the couple, who despite noted a deterioration in their relationship always hopes that somehow this dynamic change and everything fix, until you come to a point this is evidenced as an impossibility. In many cases focused on their own pain and abatement by the failure of their relationship, parents are not able to warn the sadness of their children before the new life that have started. Although it is inevitable, yes it is possible for parents to try to connect emotionally with their children and facilitate their journey by the pain, so that its impact will be minimal. What is there to try to convey to the children in this dark period? In addition to that children have always present that his parents will be there, come what may, it is precise that they are aware of that loss is a part of life, that it is inevitable and the only alternative is overcome it and face the future with a smile. In any case, if children notice how, despite what happened, both parents are there for them; gradually that pain and that feeling of loss shall be mitigating, and come a time in which accepted quite naturally and without reservations that new situation. But for this you must understand, firstly, multiple losses posed a double break for a small:-firstly, the child is exposed to a minor living with both parents. Already you may not have recourse to both anytime and probably his contacts with some of them reduce the fixed regime of visits (except in cases of shared custody).

-On the other hand, the distancing with respect to certain relatives could take place. In effect, the child might end up throwing less to his uncles, cousins and, especially, his grandparents. -Could even take place a change in the residence of one of the parents, which motivate to your After a change of school, with the consequent need for the child make new friends, precisely at a time of your life special shyness and withdrawal as a result of the breakup of their parents. Minimize and even avoid all these signs of loss will be in your hands and your former partner. Sean which were the reasons that led you to materialize your separation or divorce, try to that not affected more than necessary to your little ones. Keep in mind that they are the weakest and who could therefore largely suffering the effects of your break. Try to understand their feelings and listen to their doubts, their grievances and concerns. It will help them enormously.

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